ITS TIME TO STOP

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ITS TIME TO STOP

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Look I'm not trying to single anyone out. I'm getting sick of people complaining about GiD being mentioned or posted outside of the GiD section or mentioned in a DiD post. I'm also getting tired of things being posted outside their designated areas. I'm getting tired of the arguments spawning from all of this and locking down topics that have no constructive or fun outcome.

There are two sides to this stuff but it's starting to become a headache to shut down these stupid toxic conversations that keep happening. So I would rather everyone just RECOGNIZE their behavior and STOP DOING THE SAME THINGS OVER AND OVER.

But it's clearly not working. I'm not into banning people. So here. Let's have the discussion RIGHT HERE. Post a comment on it. Call people out. Say what you want to say about the situation like an adult and let's get it all out in the open. That's the only way this argument is going to get cleared up.
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Okay, I admit that I have been getting out of control with posting GID in DID threads, however, I have since been doing it less & only in areas like the request section. I promise to never post a GID in any thread that specifically posts for DID unless we ask and the person approves of it. people like sawxd & cicisaur are the reason why I'm scared of even mentioning a GID & since then, when I asked about GID, I always tell them to put it in the proper thread. However, that is no different than asking about DID in the pokemon GID thread in the request section. I now realize just how much pain that I have been causing around here, that we can't even post a shared thread in a request section, even if the other person doesn't mind without getting harassed about it. However, now I know that people are getting annoyed. Heck, I get annoyed about seeing DID mentioned in a GID thread. But, I'm scared of posting a mostly GID related thread in a DID section even if there is some DID because someone will post something childish & the thread will be locked. I don't mind being banned, I can't take this anymore!
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TheVampirePrincess wrote:Okay, I admit that I have been getting out of control with posting GID in DID threads, however, I have since been doing it less & only in areas like the request section. I promise to never post a GID in any thread that specifically posts for DID unless we ask and the person approves of it. people like sawxd & cicisaur are the reason why I'm scared of even mentioning a GID & since then, when I asked about GID, I always tell them to put it in the proper thread. However, that is no different than asking about DID in the pokemon GID thread in the request section. I now realize just how much pain that I have been causing around here, that we can't even post a shared thread in a request section, even if the other person doesn't mind without getting harassed about it. However, now I know that people are getting annoyed. Heck, I get annoyed about seeing DID mentioned in a GID thread. But, I'm scared of posting a mostly GID related thread in a DID section even if there is some DID because someone will post something childish & the thread will be locked. I don't mind being banned, I can't take this anymore!
I don't want to be banned anytime soon, I have plenty of things to post, both DID & GID, but all these threads are making me regret joining.
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Then take a break from the board. I'm not into banning people. You can just take a break from the board on your own. No one's forcing you to come and look and post here.
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Suicide wrote:Then take a break from the board. I'm not into banning people. You can just take a break from the board on your own. No one's forcing you to come and look and post here.
Kay, am I really that big of a nuisance?
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TheVampirePrincess wrote:Kay, am I really that big of a nuisance?
To be honest no you are not a nuisance. These arguments are. All I'm saying if you "can't take it anymore" then take some action to deal with it. Take a break. Or don't let it bother you that people complain about the GiD stuff. Just like they can choose to not let GiD posts or mentions bother them. Or like you said be more careful about posting things in certain topics. It's all things we can choose to do.
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hahaha i am tired to goin to a thread i see damsels or DID threads and finding GID when is a GID section ok i am the problem for point that and i am going to still doing it because i dunno is there a GID section or you can create a empty thread where you are the only user posting ... don´t go to a thread putting your things only for get attention this is my only answer because i see this aren´t going to change because i know first apology , second promise of not doing and next doing the same and everyone said me or other person pointing that are the problem ... if you can post GID media in DID threads what is the point of the GID section ... ohh whatever if this user can do it the same all the time i can do what i am doing the same time so you know nothing change is a vicious circle until they break it
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sawxd wrote:hahaha i am tired to goin to a thread i see damsels or DID threads and finding GID when is a GID section ok i am the problem for point that and i am going to still doing it because i dunno is there a GID section or you can create a empty thread where you are the only user posting ... don´t go to a thread putting your things only for get attention this is my only answer because i see this aren´t going to change because i know first apology , second promise of not doing and next doing the same and everyone said me or other person pointing that are the problem ... if you can post GID media in DID threads what is the point of the GID section ... ohh whatever if this user can do it the same all the time i can do what i am doing the same time so you know nothing change is a vicious circle until they break it
Or YOU can be an adult and not let it bother you so much for simply mentioning it. You also decide to complain about one GiD being posted in a thread that's full of DiD (mostly posted by the same person who posted the GiD you're so offended over). You even take ANY MENTION of GiD as some sort of SLIGHT towards a DiD you post. Why? Then you go to a post that VP has been active in and you haven't and complain that she posts a GiD. That seems petty to me.
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Suicide wrote:
TheVampirePrincess wrote:Kay, am I really that big of a nuisance?
To be honest no you are not a nuisance. These arguments are. All I'm saying if you "can't take it anymore" then take some action to deal with it. Take a break. Or don't let it bother you that people complain about the GiD stuff. Just like they can choose to not let GiD posts or mentions bother them. Or like you said be more careful about posting things in certain topics. It's all things we can choose to do.
Understood, I will take a week long break, keep in mind, I only ever post GID in the GID section & a couple threads in the request section. I almost never post any GID in the DID section outside of a quick mention.
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I almost never post any GID in the DID section outside of a quick mention.
And if that's annoying people then maybe take some consideration and stop. Apologies mean nothing without corrected behavior.
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No one else going to come forward and say anything? Because from what I'm getting from private messages a lot more people seem to really CARE about this situation. So let's hear it.
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Suicide wrote:
I almost never post any GID in the DID section outside of a quick mention.
And if that's annoying people then maybe take some consideration and stop. Apologies mean nothing without corrected behavior.
Yeah, I stopped doing that, I am aware that people get triggered by it.
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TheVampirePrincess wrote:
Yeah, I stopped doing that, I am aware that people get triggered by it.
Seems to me that the people getting triggered by this are the problem, not Vampire Princess.
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Seems to me that the people getting triggered by this are the problem, not Vampire Princess.
We're all using the board and getting annoyed by repetitive behavior is pretty common and understandable. There is no one person at fault here. It's going to take everyone being considerate to let this get settled. Please be aware that lobbing blame is not going to help.
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personally i don't have any problem in wich section the did and gid are
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